Wow! Another crazy busy three weeks! Austin's 7th birthday was three Mondays ago. This was his golden birthday, say his siblings, because your golden birthday is when you turn the same number as your birthday number. Hence, Austin turned 7 on April 7. Okay, just a little Oldroyd children trivia for you. Adam and I took McDonald's lunch to him at school (his choice, I got Wendy's for me) then we did the family birthday tradition of Cici's Pizza for dinner. It's an all-you-can eat where we always eat way more than we should. The kids love sitting in front of the bigscreen TV watching cartoons and then wasting quarters in the candy and game machines. We broke down and got him what he REALLY wanted--a Ripstik. I thought it would take him awhile to figure it out, but both he and Emilee had it figured out by the next day! I asked Emilee if she wanted a Ripstik for her birthday and she said, "I do, but then that's all I would get and I want more gifts!" Quantity over quality...that's our motto. I was going to do a birthday party for him on the Saturday after his birthday but only a few friends could make it so we actually did it this past Monday. We had 9 rowdy boys running around for an hour and a half.
But backing up a couple of weekends...we had our first Prom experience on April 12th with Elyse...and it was an experience. The very cool thing was that Wikoli Ka'aihue flew in from Utah to take Elyse to our Tri-stake Prom. The 3 Austin area Stakes decided to start a church prom to counter the school proms which have a very...how-shall-we-say...unacceptable level of standards in dress, music, and dancing. Last year was the first year to try this and it was very successful. So anyway, Elyse's date was Wikoli and they doubled with two other couples--Tucker Hancock and Stefany Charpentier and Austin Huntsman and Christine Richards. I ended up getting Elyse's dress on the internet because I couldn't find anything modest around here. The Saturday started with Elyse taking the A.C.T. for the first time and then I took her to get a new swimsuit and to get her hair and make-up done. Wikoli and the two other couples picked Elyse up at 5:30pm. It was soooo cute with the little brothers and sisters making silly embarrassing comments when Wikoli and Elyse were exchanging the boutonniere and wrist corsage. Then off they went to take pictures, then to dinner, then to the dance for an hour (which is why I said the prom experience since they didn't spend much time at the actual prom) and then they went to Tucker Hancock's uncle's and went swimming! I was a little ticked that Elyse's hair and make-up didn't last more than one day, but I look at it as a learning experience for me 'cause now I know how to do the fancy 'do and make-up for her next time! Elyse had a great time and the whole evening was one big party in a good way.
The next week flew by in a blur. Alex had a band concert and I have to admit that I am a band groupie. I love band music, especially when my son is playing. I figured out that I can call my mom on my cell phone and have her listen in on the concert to share the joy. It makes me think that Dad is listening in too if Mom can hear it. For my birthday on the 16th, I helped to teach our young women in our Ward campfire cooking and fire building for their Camp Precertification and learned that my daughters are bossy and loud just like me. What a shock! I was also in charge of our ward campout last weekend at Granger Lake. It ended up being a beautiful weekend with clear skies, low humidity, a nice breeze, and warm weather--perfect for camping. We had about 90 people who came out. The kids even got to go swimming the next day in the lake.
This week was Austin's birthday party on Monday, Emilee's birthday (and Ci-Ci's Pizza) on Wednesday (she got a Ripstik too!) and then her Party on Friday night. She had 5 of her closest posse over for food (she requested chicken nuggets, nachos, watermelon, and rootbeer floats), ice-cream cake, and fun. Emilee is my self-reliant list maker. She planned the whole night and all I had to do was supply the food! Excellent! I loved the girls who came over--well-mannered, fun, and sweet to each other. Interesting contrast to the boy party on Monday! I thought we were going to have to end the night hiding out in the tornado closet because we got a downpour and a tornado warning around 9pm. Nothing came of it but a great watering for my poor flowers and garden. I learned last week at a gardening enrichment activity that house water isn't good for your plants because of the chlorine. Duh to me... Two things I might try this year...a compost pile and a rain barrel watering system...maybe...in my two free minutes...
Alex and Elyse had youth conference this weekend and helped out at the Special Olympics. Alex had a Jazz Band Concert and when I figure out how to post video or audio, I'll have to put up one of his concerts. The Jazz Band is rockin'! And I'm not just saying that...they are really good. While Dan took the older kids to youth conference activities, I took the 4 younger ones to our elementary carnival. It was a hot humid day, but dry, so the the PTA was very happy that the carnival could go on as planned after the downpour the night before. Ashley and Emilee hooked up with friends and had a great time. Emilee said her highlight was the great (junk) food and riding the little train ride. I think Austin and Adam would agree with that too. Ashley just like the drama of being with her friends. Life is Great!
I don't usually say much about Dan in the blogs so I wanted to give him a little shout out this time. Some of the highlights for him this last month were: keeping his job at Dell after Dell continues their "Death by a Thousand Cuts" lay-offs, a compliment from the Vice-President of their area about his group's excellent marketing presentation, a fun and successful (i.e. they didn't go in the hole--har, har, pardon the pun--money wise) annual golfing tournament for the BYU Austin Management Society's scholarship fund, a killer sunburn from that same golfing tournament, his team coming in second in the tournament and winning me a $25 restaurant gift certificate, getting to go to endless church meetings and actually liking it, and running, running, running 'cause he wants to do the Provo 1/2 Marathon in August.
Well, my deep thoughts this time center on Pres. Monson's April 2008 Ensign Message: "Look to the Past, Prepare for the Future, Live in the Present." Look to the Past--A dear Mussi friend, Hannah Nez Valentine, sent me an article about a photo exhibit of Native American photos taken by Bruce Hucko, a professional photographer and an old yearbook advisor at Whitehorse High School in Montezuma Creek, Utah. (See his wonderful work at
www.brucehuckophoto.com .) The memories flooded back and I was filled with gratitude for the things I learned from this dear teacher and old friend: finding beauty and intricacy in the seemingly ordinary, looking at something from multiple perspectives and appreciating each one, telling a whole story with one image, finding great joy in art appreciation, learning the importance of documenting history, making work fun! I loved this quote from his website: "Active seeing is not something I turn on and do only when holding a camera; it's part of the art of living." Prepare for the Future & Live in the Present: A friend of ours who used to live in Austin, Rich Lloyd, passed away this week at the age of 35 from brain cancer. He was an amazing person of great depth and talent. He leaves behind a beautiful wife and three young sons. His fight to live for the nine months since his diagnosis was courageous and inspiring and his motto through it all was "Live Rich!" Lessons I learned: Appreciate and cherish each moment with loved ones, express gratitude often, get and keep your affairs in order, share adversity as well as successes with others so that they can learn from you and you can lean on them, fight courageously & surrender graciously, ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING! I blog you!